Hi! Profile descriptions are for preferences, not for demands. It's nice to take into account your partner's preferences but in the end you send the stamps that you have. Most members would appreciate you trying.
If for some reason you want to cancel an exchange, you can do so once every 30 days. The slot goes back to your partner and you can request a new address. If you have a canceled exchange with a user, you will not get the address of that member again.